The Tongue

”There is one who speaks rashly like the thrusts of a sword, But the tongue of the wise brings healing.“. ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭12‬:‭18‬ ‭‬

I know at times I have been a person that speaks rashly, although for decades my heart has not been to hurt others with my words. I know others have experienced the thrusting of the sword of my tongue. I have apologized to as many people as God has brought to my remembrance from as early as childhood. I am sorry for the damage my mouth has done and recognize it is something that due to my strong personality that I have to be mindful to curb.

I want my tongue to bring healing to those who I speak to. As a counselor, I know that is part of my job. As a Christian it is something God wants from all my interactions.

As I think about it, health boundaries are also needed in regard to words spoken. It is okay to separate from those whose tongue does not bring healing. If there is constant thrust from a sword, we would do well to close the door to the one doing that. So boundaries for rashly spoken words is also appropriate. Setting boundaries around that type of contact is just as important. It may not have to be a permanently closed door or as strong of boundary, but it will still have to be a firm boundary until the person stops using their mouth as a sword.

Lord, help me to use my mouth to heal and not harm. Thank You for Your forgiveness and grace in the times I used my mouth as a sword, I truly am sorry I used my mouth as a weapon of harm. Thank You for Your mercy. Help me to use my mouth to heal going forward. Help me to keep healthy boundaries around what is spoken to and around me. In Jesus name, amen.