Broken, an adjective,defined as:
We are all broken. We all have areas in are life that have been broken whether by negative events like abuse, neglect, divorce, sickness or death; or just the natural course of events like moving out of the family home, having a child, or children leaving home that create a separation in the normal working order of life. Regardless of what or who causes the brokenness in our life, how broken we think we are, or how broken others think we may be, there is a healing that can take place that creates an even stronger, more valuable vessel going forward.
In oriental countries, there is a practice called Kintsugi, an art of fixing broken pottery. Rather than camouflage broken ceramic pieces, the technique employs a lacquer dusted with powdered gold, silver, or platinum. Once completed, beautiful seams of gold glint in the conspicuous cracks of ceramic wares, giving a one-of-a-kind appearance to each “repaired” piece. This method celebrates each artifact’s unique history by emphasizing its fractures and breaks instead of hiding or disguising them.
In addition to serving as an form of art, Kintsugi represents prevalent philosophical ideas. Namely, seeing beauty in the flawed or imperfect. The repair method expresses regret when something is wasted, as well as the acceptance of change. Kelly Richman-Abdou on September 5, 2019
The next 28 days, I will share secrets from the Word about healing your broken vessel. God’s Word promises He will be near, He will save, He will heal and He will bind up the wounds of the brokenhearted.
kept Jesus from the cross and death, it would have changed the outcome for us all. If Jesus hadn’t overcome death and the power of sin, we would have faced the consequences.
First you have to access is it a relationship that can be restored. Some questions to consider: Is being in a relationship with that family member or friend physically safe? If your safety is a concern, then it is not a healthy relationship.
Healing isn’t exact, but it is possible. Sometimes the journey seems harder than the hurt. You have to hold on to the knowledge that the healing wholeness will be worth it in the end. It can feel like you take one step forward and two steps back. You have to hold on to the fact that you are making progress, even if it is slow. It can feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, but there is. It isn’t exact, but it will be exactly what you need in the end.
God in all His wisdom knows what will happen. He is not surprised by what we experience. He is right there alongside of us in the experience. He sees it before it happens. He sees it happen. He knows the affects it will have on the lives of all involved or influenced by the experience. 
I have heard it quoted that research shows it takes 20 to 40 positives to overcome every negative thing we hear. Most people are not broken by being encouraged and uplifted by others. Instead there are negative messages that are spoke for weeks, months, years and decades that have to be unlearned. Usually there are not people that are going to take the time to really pour in that much positive into on person’s life. So some of that positive is going to have to come from self-talk. Going back to yesterday’s 
Sometimes people don’t feel they are worthy of anything better than what they have known their whole life, or since the beginning of the brokenness. I can only say that you deserve better. Right where you are, you are enough. You are enough to say “My enough is enough. I have had enough. So enough is enough.”